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Causing considerable consternation
to many fine folk since 1957

Pepper and me ... Seattle 1962

  

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Insist on yourself; never imitate.

Your own gift you can present

every moment

with the cumulative force

of a whole life’s cultivation;

but of the adopted talent of another

you have only an extemporaneous

half possession.

That which each can do best,

none but his Maker can teach him.

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Also capturing outrageous beauty left and right with my Nikon D7000 blissfully married to my Nikkor 85mm f/1.4D AF prime glass. Don't be jeal.

And then there was the Nikon AF-S DX NIKKOR 18-200mm f:3.5-5.6G ED VR II zoom. We're done here.

Dying Is A Day Worth Living For

I am a taphophile

Word. Photo Jennifer Weber 2010

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Dying is a wild night

and a new road.

Emily Dickinson

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REMEMBRANCE

When I am gone

Please remember me

 As a heartfelt laugh,

 As a tenderness.

 Hold fast to the image of me

When my soul was on fire,

The light of love shining

Through my eyes.

Remember me when I was singing

And seemed to know my way.

Remember always

When we were together

And time stood still.

Remember most not what I did,

Or who I was;

Oh please remember me

For what I always desired to be:

A smile on the face of God.

David Robert Brooks

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 Do not regret growing older. It is a privilege denied to many.

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Keep To The Code

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You Want To Find This
The Promise Of Redemption

Therefore seeing we have this ministry, as we have received mercy, we faint not;

But have renounced the hidden things of dishonesty, not walking in craftiness, nor handling the word of God deceitfully; but by manifestation of the truth commending ourselves to every man's conscience in the sight of God.

But if our gospel be hid, it is hid to them that are lost:

In whom the god of this world hath blinded the minds of them which believe not, lest the light of the glorious gospel of Christ, who is the image of God, should shine unto them.

For we preach not ourselves, but Christ Jesus the Lord; and ourselves your servants for Jesus' sake.

For God, who commanded the light to shine out of darkness, hath shined in our hearts, to give the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Jesus Christ.

But we have this treasure in earthen vessels, that the excellency of the power may be of God, and not of us.

We are troubled on every side, yet not distressed; we are perplexed, but not in despair;

Persecuted, but not forsaken; cast down, but not destroyed;

Always bearing about in the body the dying of the Lord Jesus, that the life also of Jesus might be made manifest in our body.

For we which live are alway delivered unto death for Jesus' sake, that the life also of Jesus might be made manifest in our mortal flesh.

So then death worketh in us, but life in you.

We having the same spirit of faith, according as it is written, I BELIEVED, AND THEREFORE HAVE I SPOKEN; we also believe, and therefore speak;

Knowing that he which raised up the Lord Jesus shall raise up us also by Jesus, and shall present us with you.

For all things are for your sakes, that the abundant grace might through the thanksgiving of many redound to the glory of God.

For which cause we faint not; but though our outward man perish, yet the inward man is renewed day by day.

For our light affliction, which is but for a moment, worketh for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory;

While we look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen: for the things which are seen are temporal; but the things which are not seen are eternal.

II Corinthians 4

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THE DREAMERS

In the dawn of the day of ages,
 In the youth of a wondrous race,
 'Twas the dreamer who saw the marvel,
 'Twas the dreamer who saw God's face.


On the mountains and in the valleys,
By the banks of the crystal stream,
He wandered whose eyes grew heavy
With the grandeur of his dream.

The seer whose grave none knoweth,
The leader who rent the sea,
The lover of men who, smiling,
Walked safe on Galilee --

All dreamed their dreams and whispered
To the weary and worn and sad
Of a vision that passeth knowledge.
They said to the world: "Be glad!

"Be glad for the words we utter,
Be glad for the dreams we dream;
Be glad, for the shadows fleeing
Shall let God's sunlight beam."

But the dreams and the dreamers vanish,
The world with its cares grows old;
The night, with the stars that gem it,
Is passing fair, but cold.

What light in the heavens shining
Shall the eye of the dreamer see?
Was the glory of old a phantom,
The wraith of a mockery?

Oh, man, with your soul that crieth
In gloom for a guiding gleam,
To you are the voices speaking
Of those who dream their dream.

If their vision be false and fleeting,
If its glory delude their sight --
Ah, well, 'tis a dream shall brighten
The long, dark hours of night.

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Freedom is a fragile thing and is never more than one generation away from extinction. It is not ours by inheritance; it must be fought for and defended constantly by each generation, for it comes only once to a people. Those who have known freedom and then lost it, have never known it again.

~ Ronald Reagan

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Friday
Dec102010

This makes no census

My dadLast Saturday, like a complete noodle (because who has time for this during Christmas?) I bit on the fourteen-day free trial at Ancestry dot com.

I think the only thing I moved for the next eight hours was my index finger, to click the mouse and follow my lineage back, back, back into the dark murky waters of seventeenth-century Ireland.

(Your free trial doesn't take you across the pond, should your search point in that general direction. And if you become a paying customer it costs way more to investigate your provenance outside of the USA.)

At times I laughed out loud as I clicked and read, causing TG to holler, "Are you having a good time?" from his vantage point in the next room where he lay prone on the sofa watching football, moving nothing but his thumb to click the remote.

We're totally digital at our house.

So, what did I find out? I know you're dying to know because, it being Christmas and all, you've got nothing else to do but read about my dead relatives.

Well.

I got as far back as Brian McManus, born in 1675 in Carrickfergus, Antrim, Ireland. He stayed on the Emerald Isle but his son, John McManus, emigrated to America in the early 1700s.

He settled in Maryland, where he died in 1738. That's the last mention of a McManus in my family tree living north of the Sweet Tea Line. Thereafter they hailed from South Carolina and Louisiana.

Many years later in Louisiana, a little girl was born with the name ... wait for it ... Louisiana! Amongst her siblings she had a sister named Missouri and one named Alabama. Also a brother named Washington.

Her parents were clearly enamored of these United States.

And guess what! Their last name was Bird! Louisiana Bird! She was my great great grandmother.

I like it that my great great grandmother was named Louisiana Bird. I'll bet you a creamy-white magnolia petal she was ditzy like me.

Elizabeth Cassidy Sandifer - Mamaw (1918-1981)

At any rate, she married a man named Allen Guice O'Neal. He was an ordained Baptist minister who ended up committing suicide.

According to a newspaper article, he had been despondent about an ongoing illness.

It was Nora O'Neal, the daughter of Louisiana and Allen, who married one J.T. McManus. Eventually there was born to them a little boy they named Onie.

Onie grew up and married a pretty girl named Doris Freeman, and together they had one child: a son, Blanchard Guy McManus, born October 16, 1930 in Shreveport, Caddo Parish, Louisiana.

Blanchard was my father.

Several years later, on June 25, 1937, my mother would be born in Brookhaven, Lincoln County, Mississippi.

Her parents were Dorsey Rollins Sandifer and Elizabeth Cassidy Sandifer. My beloved Papaw and Mamaw.

My own TG was especially doted upon by Papaw. The first time they met was in Atlanta in June of 1979, a few days before our wedding.

When TG arrived, Papaw was cooking up a big pot of jambalaya for everybody. Papaw was a cajun chef with few equals. He could've taught Paul Prudhomme a thing or twelve.

I still dream of his repasts of fried brim (that he'd caught on his own bayou trotlines), hot crispy okra, melt-in-your-mouth butterbeans, and scrumptious cakelike cornbread.

My grandmother Doris Freeman McManus (R)(Let's not even talk about his homemade fudge. My sister and I -- as adults -- have been known to fight over a tin of that stuff. Since his passing I've never tasted fudge remotely like it. People don't know what fudge is anymore. Hint: it does not involve chocolate chips, marshmallow creme, or condensed milk.)

An' yeah ma cher, for that jambalaya recipe he'd brought the Andouille sausage with him all the way from Baton Rouge.

Well, when Papaw put it on the table accompanied by a pan of cornbread still in the black iron skillet and said "tuck in" -- or words to that effect -- TG took it very personally. He ate three platesful and before the evening was over, Papaw was calling that Ohio boy "son."

December 4 -- last Saturday, the day I sat for hours researching my ancestry -- would have been Papaw's ninety-fifth birthday.

One of the times I laughed out loud was when I was looking at crystal-clear pictures of the handwritten census records from 1920 and 1930 in Wesson, Copiah County, Mississippi.

Although my grandfather had celebrated his fourth birthday just three weeks prior to January 7, 1920, the census enumerator for "Wesson City," one Albert B. Weeks, put down little Dorsey's age as four and a half. He is correctly identified as to race and gender across the line of little checkboxes thusly: Dorsey ... Son... M ... W ... 4 1/2 ... S.

His mother, my great-grandmother Eugenia, whose husband had died the previous November, was expecting her last child, baby Myron. She is described as a 41-year old white woman, widow, head of the house.

Living in the home with her were sons Anderson, Jessie, and Dorsey, as well as daughters Buella, Mildred, Elberta, Bessie, Mollie, and Katie.

Ten years later, on April 7, 1930, the census enumerator for "Wesson Town" in Copiah County, Mississippi, was a lady named Mattie Matthews.

Eugenia, by then age 50, still lived in the little house described as being situated "East of the Railroad Tracks" (the wrong side, no doubt), but she'd added two boarders: Hooper Stone, white, age 25, and Hilda Carruthers, white, age 22.

Some of her brood had flown the nest. Remaining at home were sons Jessie, age 22, and Myron, age 9. They were joined by daughters Mollie, 17, Katie, 15 ... and Dorcie, 14.

Dorsey Rollins Sandifer - Papaw (1915-1994)

Yes. Somewhere between 1920 and 1930 my grandfather became a girl and changed his name from Dorsey to Dorcie.

That information provided according to what had to have been an extremely myopic -- or, at the very least, distracted -- census taker.

Isn't that special?

Papaw would've loved it that the census enumerator wrote him down as a daughter when he was fourteen. In my mind's eye I can see his face alight with laughter and with my heart I can hear that laughter. 

Maybe after wiping away tears of mirth, to entertain us he would have snatched his harmonica out of his pocket and played the piece that sounded just like the slowly-building noise of a locomotive progressing purposefully along the rails, crescendoing in its high-pitched whistle as it blew by us where we stood "East of the Railroad Tracks."

Because anywhere my Papaw was, was always the side of the tracks I wanted to be on.

Even if he was really a girl.

Reader Comments (7)

We subscribe to the expensive overseas product. Every year, I kick up about it, and every year, I am over-ruled. I really resent paying every month for something that is only used infrequently. But it does seem to be the best resource for genealogy.

December 10, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterSue the hobbit

Fun stories.

And look at those lovely ladies, from whom you descended! No wonder you're soooooooooooooo darned purrrrrrrrrrrrrdy!!! :-)

Gentle hugs...

December 10, 2010 | Unregistered Commenter'Aunt Amelia'

How cool that you've gotten so far on this side of the pond.

December 10, 2010 | Unregistered Commenterirene

My sister-in-law is doing an ancestry search on the family name "Hamilton". I have a cousin who did a search on my grandparents on my mother's side of the family. I would love to find out something about my father's side of the family. 14 day free trial??? I might check it out.

December 10, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterDebbie

I swear I was reading another literary installment from Fannie Flagg! Your writing absolutely delights me!

December 11, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterDonna M.

As always, absolutely delighted with the literary genius who is JennyPennifer. God bless you and your writing hand.

December 13, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterTimTipper

This is SO Cool! My Mom did a book for her side but there's only word of mouth about my Dads side...
And yes, I think he would have enjoyed the "mis-step" of the census taker...Hahaa...
hughugs

December 13, 2010 | Unregistered CommenterDonna (Texas)

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